1-Be guided by what their eyes can see.
There was a very strong man physically and spiritually, who had two weaknesses.
1-He was attracted by what his eyes saw in women, the outer appearance. Since he was so focus in the outside, he only used his eye sight. Leaving the rest of his senses unaware of the danger he was in. Then he didn’t evaluate the moral conduct, the level of intelligence, emotional maturity, neither their real intentions.
2- He opened his heart, and his mouth too much. Because of this weakness he told his secrets to the wrong people and fell prey of his enemies, losing his eye sight, his purpose and his life too soon.
The enemy, studied this man’s weaknesses and used them against him. With the help of wicked women gradually destroyed the purpose of this man. Unfortunately, the young man, ignored the red flags, and did not learn his lesson on time. He slept with a prostitute, and this act opened the door to more unclean spirits that contaminated his soul and body, and made him spiritually sleepy. This man entered a spiritual prison, a deep pit when he entered that whore’s body. And being in that deep spirit pit he found another woman who was the worst of all, a narrow well, from which he could not get out. This situation applies for men and women, there are evil spirits that can enter someone who sleeps with a promiscuous person and will ruin that person’s life.
“For a deep pit is the harlot, and a narrow well is the unknown woman.” Proverbs 23:27
“And I found the woman whose heart is bonds and nets, whose hands are chains, more bitter than death. He who pleases God will escape from her, but the sinner will be captured by her. ” Ecclesiastes 7:26
“Deep pit is the mouth of the strange woman; he against whom the Lord is angry will fall into it. ” Proverbs 22:14. RVG
2- Discuss when they should run.
There are wicked people, programmed to appear in our way to make us fall into temptation and the trap will be so well orchestrated that it will seem inevitable not to fall into that illicit relationship. It will seem like a unique opportunity. But the wisest thing we can do when faced with the temptation to fall into sexual sins is not to argue, it is to run away, and escape like when a lion chases you and you know that if you don’t run it will devour you. If you run for your life you can live to tell. “Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body. Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So, you must honor God with your body.” 1 Corinthians 6:18-20.
3- The wrong father-in-law.
We must make sure that we do not marry a son or daughter of the devil himself. If he sees that we do not accept his suggestion, he will send us messengers. These messengers can be trusted friends, family members, psychologists, professional motivators, coaches, romantic movies, worldly romantic songs, wet dreams, real life dramas, videos on social media, or Netflix series that will make you reflect on other couple’s lives. Or they will make you feel lonely and make you think you need a partner like that. Among all the options the most attractive one, is going to be the one that the enemy is recommending to you. Because that person will have characteristics that he knows are important to you. When the enemy sees that you do not have a partner, or that you have relationship conflicts, he will find a way for you to become his son-in-law or daughter-in-law. “Saul said, “I will give her to him so that she may become a snare (bad influence, source of trouble) to him, and that the hand of the Philistines may be against him.” So Saul said to David for a second time, “You shall be my son-in-law today.”” 1 Samuel 18:21. AMP.
For references on a model of that kind of fathers-in-law. Please, read 1 Samuel chapter 18.
Infatuation is the act of being carried away by an irrational passion, a feeling that seems like love but is addictive and is just an infatuation. There are people who feel “in love” with someone, to the point of becoming emotionally ill and physically decaying because they cannot be with that person they want. Who in most cases is a prohibited person, since the person is a relative, or is married or engaged, or something prevents that relationship from taking place. Enchanted people constantly think of the person they say they love madly. The weird thing is that once they manage to have a relationship with that other person they are obsessed with, they almost always start to despise them and lose interest. They realize that it was not love, but the damage has already been done. Although it may be that the other person does love them. The sexual act is not merely carnal, during this event, the essences of the soul and the spirit of those who practice it are exchanged. “Can a man scoop a flame into his lap
and not have his clothes catch on fire?”. Proverbs 6:27. NLT
5-Soul links or soul ties.
A soul link or soul tie is an invisible connection in the soul between two people. These links cannot be seen but they are felt in the hearts and mind, and even in the body of those that are attached in their souls to someone they loved and cannot let go. This links can exist between family member, friends, husband and wives, lovers and o on. There are people who had a relationship with someone a long time ago and have not been able to get that person out of their head. Because their souls remained attached to that person, and no matter how hard they have tried to forget the relationship, it has not been possible. Some people may even feel the other person in their body, smell their essence and often dream about the other person. There are people who have more than one person stuck in their soul, they have all with whom they were sexually involved traveling around with them. That link in the soul is a barrier that prevents you from knowing the correct partner, because you have the romantic relationship spiritual and emotional space occupied. If a person feels tormented by a memory of a previous relationship, and wants to be free from a soul tie, I will recommend them to pray renouncing that soul tie, cutting the links in the spirit and the soul with the sword of the Spirit and divorcing that other person, by writing in a piece of paper that you are extending a letter of divorce in the spirit and the soul to the other person and that from now on, you close every door, and you are going to let them go, and will be able to move forward. “Now Dinah the daughter of Leah, whom she had borne to Jacob, went out [unescorted] to visit the girls of the land. When Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince (sheik) of the land, saw her, he kidnapped her and lay [intimately] with her by force [humbling and offending her]. But his soul longed for and clung to Dinah daughter of Jacob, and he loved the girl and spoke comfortingly to her young heart’s wishes.” Genesis 34:1-3. AMP
6- Getting desperate and doing crazy things trying to help God.
There are single people and even married people who feel despair, and get hand on, trying to help God to keep his promises or answer their prayer on their terms and time. Some people get married the first person that appears, so that the famous train does not pass them by. As a result, many people are facing very bad consequences. Unsatisfying marriages, constant fights and conflicts that could have been avoided, only if they had waited a little longer. Instead of having a child who brings laughter, they bring children who become a headache. There are women who, because of the biological clock, or to try to get the husband to leave the lover, became desperate and had children with the wrong man, at the wrong time, and brought children with health problems and with character issues. Today they see their family as a torment, and probably a burden instead of being a blessing.
How to protect ourselves? Studying God’s word, spending time with him in prayer. Evaluating the conversations, we have and the thoughts we entertain. Taking care of what we say, do, and what we see. We cannot open our hearts to everyone. We must discern, so as not to be deceived. There are secrets that are only told to God. We can be friendly, but not everyone who talks to us is our friend. Not everything in the kitchen is to be eaten. Not everyone who goes to church is of God. “Whoever controls his mouth protects his life, whoever talks too much will be ruined.” Proverbs 13: 3. BLPH
“My son, if sinners entice you,
Do not consent.” Proverbs 1:10. AMP